Life is a journey. We are often described as the author of our own story. But have you ever asked the question whether life is a choice or a chance?

One way to look at this, is that life chances can influence our choices. We all have choices to make everyday, from the moment we wake up, until we go to sleep. We make countless decisions about the things we do, the words we speak and the way we direct our thoughts. However, most decisions are small and are only slightly impactful. But it is the big decisions that can change our lives forever and those life chances can of course influence those big decisions that we make.

So, is life a mix of the two, determined by our choices and our chances?

And here is a curveball…Fate.

There are many people that believe that our lives are determined by fate. That our lives are predetermined, already planned out and no matter what choices you make, no matter what chances we have, fate will lead you to where you are supposed to be and have the life that is destined for you. However, lets think about this as an example; Fate decides who comes into your life, but it is your heart that decides who stays.

So, could it be that we trust in fate. And you are right where you are supposed to be in life and you will follow the path you are supposed to walk on? Choices and chances may come and go. Some may change your direction but fate will always lead you to where you belong.

There is one thing that I do know, life is complicated and no matter what you believe in, I hope you can find the happiness you deserve. Through all the ups and downs, the twists and turns onto different paths, I hope you are able to see those life chances when they come around, to make choices, live with no regrets and appreciate the scenic views, whatever path you may be on.

Something to think about. The top 5 regrets in life…

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

So, never regret anything that made you smile. Don’t wait until it is too late to tell those who you love and care for how you feel. Never miss a chance to be kind to a stranger. Grab the chance to be present in the moment and make memories for your life story. Because after all, whether life is a choice, a chance or determined by fate, you are the author of your story.

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